It's been almost a week since the hubby has left and we're doing surprisingly well! So far I've only had one night of "oh shit...what was that!?" The kid has been taking it surprisingly well also. There's been a few nights where she wanted to call Daddy and that's no problem, whatever comforts her is fine with me.
I can't decide if my letting the kid sleep in bed with me is helping me more or her more. (??) But I like it. Having the him gone made me realize how comforting it is to have the warmth of someone beside you. But I do have to say, I think she likes it too! :o)
It's amazing how much a little change in pace or change in yourself or maybe your surroundings can affect a person. Since alone (lack of a better word moment) my house is cleaner which makes me happier, the kids a bit more of a hand full but I'm enjoying all my time with her*, and I'm on a good road towards bettering myself for myself. I guess as hard as this situation, that I feel like I can't stop complaining about, is on all of us there's a good chance a few good things will come out of it and I'm looking forward to the results.
* We'll see how I feel after four months! ;-)
About Me
- Brandi
- I'm a t-shirt & jeans, beer & wings kind of girl. I sit behind a desk during the day and shoot people at night...I have this wonderful bag full of lenses, lights and picture boxes that aid me in my evening ventures.
I'm a daughter and a granddaughter, a big sister and a little sister, a wife and a mom.
And let's not forget: loud/outspoke, slightly neurotic, obsessive complusive, not-so-perfect perfectionist, idealist, consistently inconsistent, adventurous, rebellious, argumentative...and the list goes on - those were the basics.
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